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The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook:

Practical Strategies for Living with Someone Who Has Borderline Personality Disorder

$18.95

By Randi Kreger with James Shirley

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Item# 2760
150 pgs., softcover
1-572242-76-0

Over the years, dozens of list members told me that Stop Walking on Eggshells is so densely packed with information that they have to read it several times, highlighting important sections and making notes in the margins.

This workbook supplements your understanding of the principles in SWOE, assists in applying them to your own type of relationship, and helps you practice them so they become second nature. For example, it includes things like:

  • A form to help to fill in when looking for a clinician

  • A list of phrases helpful in different situations

  • A way to log how BPD has affected your life

  • How to overcome "non-BP myths" and handle reality

  • Step-by-step instructions for setting personal limits

  • Checklists to help you discover what makes you feel fearful, obligated, and guilty

  • Exercises to help improve your assertiveness skills

  • Integrated information for parents of children with BPD and people with BP parents

  • The four types of BPD and how each type differs in thoughts and behaviors

  • How non-BPs react to the behaviors of each of the four types

  • Checklists to help assess the "real you" and your strengths

  • Discussion of the difficulties of change

  • Examples from real-life arguments and directions on how to respond

  • Help in learning how to treasure yourself

  • Tips for overcoming emotional blackmail

  • Ways to counteract "hoovering"

  • A glossary of BPD terms

Table of Contents

Foreword by :
James Paul Shirley, MSW

PART 1:
FROM CONFUSION TO CLARITY: UNDERSTANDING BPD

  • Chapter 1: Walking on Eggshells: Does Someone In Your Life Have BPD Traits?

  • Chapter 2: Defining BPD: The DSM-IV and Cognitive Distortions

  • Chapter 3: Defining BPD: The Subtypes

  • Chapter 4: Getting Together: Relationship Behavior Patterns

  • Chapter 5: Brainwashing 101: How BPD Behavior Affects You

PART TWO:
TAKING BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE
 

  • Chapter 6: Beyond Denial: Accepting What You Cannot Change

  • Chapter 7: Treasuring Yourself: Owning Your Own Life

  • Chapter 8: Clearing the FOG: Fear, Obligation and Guilt

  • Chapter 9: Being Heard: Communicating with a Borderline

PART THREE:
MAKING WISE DECISIONS AND IMPLEMENTING THEM
 

  • Chapter 10: Considering Options and Making Decisions

  • Chapter 11: Finding Qualified Professional Help

APPENDICES 

Appendix 1: Reading List and Resources
Appendix 2: References for This Book
Appendix 3. Glossary of Terms
Appendix 4: Safety Plan For Domestic Violence Situations

References 



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