SPLITTING:  Protecting Yourself While Divorcing a Borderline or Narcissist

I was divorced several years ago, but last year I went through a huge custody battle with many false allegations. I lost custody of my children (after five years, but with the help of the methods described in Splitting, I won back custody after eight months and my ex-wife was sanctioned $10,000 for making knowingly false allegations of child sexual abuse.

When I first read this book, I couldn't put it down - I identified with it so much. As this book teaches, my strategy was to be totally honest, cooperative and not to fight the system but to work within it and go through the right steps to turn my case around. It helps you pick your battles and take care of yourself to maintain your ability to fight back, instead of allowing them to destroy you. I'd recommend this book to anyone - before, during or after a divorce.