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Are you walking on eggshells?

Just released!
“Stop Walking on Eggshells for Parents”

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Someone in your life may have borderline personality disorder if:

  • Their emotions change in the blink of an eye
  • They need constant reassurance
  • They fly into rages
  • They love you, then hate you
  • They’re incredibly impulsive
  • Major, fast mood swings
  • They’re jealous and accuse you of having affairs
  • They are suicidal or self-harm

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

You may have someone with narcissistic personality disorder in your life if:

  • They do or say mean things to you in a careless or vengeful way if they’re mad
  • They only talk about themselves 
  • They have a never ending need for admiration and attention
  • They have no empathy
  • They’re arrogant, entitled, and think they’re superior
  • They’re the victim and everything is someone else’s fault

 DBT FAMILY WORKSHOP

Are you looking for real skills to communicate more effectively, reduce your stress, observe your personal limits, and stop inadvertently reinforcing problem behaviors?  Sign up for our next

SWOE DBT FAMILY WORKSHOP

A Path to Improve Relationships and Decrease Interpersonal Conflict

12-week workshops

Thursdays, May 9 – Aug 1
5 pm PT | 6 pm MT | 7 pm CT | 8 pm ET | 12 noon Sydney

Thursdays, Sep 5 – Dec 5
5 pm PT | 6 pm MT | 7 pm CT | 8 pm ET | 12 noon Sydney

Fridays, October 18 – Jan 10
9 am PT | 10 am MT | 11 am CT | Noon ET | 5 pm London

with Corrine Stoewsand, Ph.D.

For family members of persons with emotional dysregulation, impulsive behavior, or symptoms borderline personality disorder, who want to learn skills based on Dialectical Behavior Therapy, the “gold standard” for treating BPD.

“This program is for everyone who wants to stop walking on eggshells around someone with borderline personality disorder!”  – Randi Kreger

RECENT FEEDBACK FROM PARTICIPANTS:

“I was lost and heartbroken over the difficult relationship I had with my son and the subsequent alienation from my grandchildren.  Validation and Radical Acceptance were HARD and took a lot of practice. But they opened doors to being invited back into my son’s life! I feel deeply grateful for how those 12 weeks changed my life.” “I realized I was trying to control my sister, making everything worse. For now, I’m just trying to manage my own judgments, and it seems to be making things better.”

“I thought you were just going to tell me the right thing to say to my wife, but this program is really about how I can make deep changes in myself, which seems to be improving the relationship. It is not perfect, but my wife’s angry outbursts are less frequent and far less intense.”

“I thought I had the intelligence to navigate my daughter’s dysregulation by myself. In hindsight, I was woefully ill-prepared to solve this on my own. After doing this course, I realized how I was exacerbating my daughter’s distress. With Corrine’s help and guidance, I learned to improve my communication with my daughter, validate her feelings, and sustain clearer boundaries. Corrine gave me the strength to make tough decisions while she had the greatest sympathy and understanding of my daughter’s distress. Corrine stood by me throughout the whole process. It has changed our lives in a matter of months, and my daughter is now living independently. We now enjoy each other’s company again. I would highly recommend that you fully engage with this course. She healed the both of us.”

“I had no idea this program would have this spiritual component that makes me feel calmer and more connected. To my surprise, that has helped reduce conflict and improve my relationship with everyone in my family.”

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Workshop fees: The total cost of the workshop is $540 (U.S. dollars) paid in full before the workshop begins. This is only $45 per class and the fee is per person (not per family). The class is limited to a maximum of 25 participants and there will be ample opportunity to for dialogue and exercises.

Taught by: Corrine Stoewsand, Ph.D., intensively trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy, which has a wealth of research showing its effectiveness in treating borderline personality disorder and other mental health conditions. Corrine has taught DBT skills to families and therapists throughout Latin America for 15 years and is known for her depth of knowledge and the gentle kindness that she communicates. Her book, Genuine Validation: Compassionate Communication that Transforms Difficult Relationships, was published in 2019 and is available on Amazon in English or in Spanish.

With the support of: Randi Kreger, author of the bestseller series, Stop Walking On Eggshells, has been helping families for over 25 years. Through her books, online groups, and workshops, she has helped millions of people around the world to understand and manage their relationships with a person who suffers from borderline personality disorder and/or narcissistic personality disorder.

Register early—workshops are limited to 20 participants.

MORE INFO

https://www.dbtcoach.com/workshops

Or write to:

corrine@dbtcoach.com

About International Expert Randi Kreger

My name is Randi Kreger, and I’m one of the world’s leading experts on how to take your life back when someone you love has borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. I am best known for my book Stop Walking on Eggshells.

My mission is to help you repair your relationship with your family member, if you can. If you can’t, I’ll help you move forward, whatever that means for you.

My newest book is Stop Walking on Eggshells for Parents. You can order here. The other is The Essential Family Guide to BPD, which is really Stop Walking on Eggshells 2.0.

If a family member has BPD or NPD, you need support and information! Join my Moving Forward information and  Support Group.  I send out practical info several times a week.

Join my mailing list to be notified when I have something important going on. I send something at most four times a year.

I recommend visiting my bookstore. It contains 25 years worth of my knowledge. The information there will help you get your life back on track.

This website is rich with information that will help you live better. It’s almost a book of its own. Make it one of your favorites and come back often.

I wish you happiness, health, peace, safety, and happiness, whether your family member decides to get better or not.

“Moving Forward”
Online Family Support

“Randi literally saves people’s lives. To those of us who’ve read her stuff and found out that we’re not crazy and there’s a name for this disorder, she is a guiding star, a light in the darkness, and a voice crying out in the wilderness.”

–A reader

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